Looking for a mistress?

The first rule is, mistresses and dominatrices don’t just grow on trees, you have to make yourself an attractive option.
Whether you want to be a submissive as part of a relationship, or you’re just seeking relief, it’s important to understand that ‘I’ll do anything you want’ is something we hear everyday, especially from men.

First of all, decide on what it is you’re looking for. If you want something based around your needs, your desires and your schedule, then I’d recommend putting your money where your libido is and paying for a dominatrix.
As a mistress, I expect to be in command all the time. I expect you to be at my beck and call, it certainly won’t work the other way round.

So, I’ve put together a handy guide on how you can approach a prospective dominant without coming across as a complete dick.
‘Hello, mistress’ is not an opening line My Fetlife account, and even some of my dating apps, have a tonne of one-line messages like this. I’m not your mistress, and neither do I want to be when you’ve started with the BDSM equivalent of ‘hey, babe’. Don’t top from the bottom
Don’t start with a list of stuff you want to try. While that might come in handy later down the line, I’m more interested in hearing about you as a human.
Also, if you’re only going to be available for the things you want to do, on the days you want to do it, this isn’t going to work. Don’t just list all the things you want to do .

Be more than just a submissive or slave.

Unfortunately, too many submissive men think just by saying they’ll do what I want, I’ll want them to do it. However, my joy comes from being in control of another human who has made themselves an attractive prospect, not a doormat.
We’re picky bitches, and we want to see you have a interesting life outside of kink.

Don’t be ‘shy’ As soon as someone starts saying ‘I’d love to do more, but I’m shy’ I switch off. Nope, not for me. I want someone who has the confidence, passion and desire to really start experimenting. I’m sorry you’re shy, but no one bursts into their first BDSM munch or meet-up like Lord Flashheart. We all started somewhere, so you can too.

Get out Local munches and meet-ups are a great way to get out and prove you’re willing in person.  Frankly, our default status is to suspect any submissive bloke is just looking to wank off online, so being willing to attend events is a great way to start. Stop watching free fem-dom porn That’s not us, that’s not what we do, that’s never going to happen.
Several dominatrices will offer a bespoke video if you’re that keen, but the trash thrown up on free porn sites is literally just there to keep you clicking. The fantasy you see in a five minute clip will never reflect what it’s really like to serve someone, so stop trying to compare.

 We’re human, we’re vulnerable and we’re more than just a kink.

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Is Cyber BDSM safe?

The question of the reality of BDSM cyber interactions is one that is guaranteed to bring up an emotional disagreement at any time. There are two schools of thought that argue this point the most. First you have those who believe in the reality of cyber interactions, and second you have those who do not believe in them at all, insisting they are nothing but fantasy. There is a third group, these are the people that tend to straddle the fence and believe that cyber can be real but it doesn't hold a candle to real life in any way shape or form. Whether or not one sees a cyber interaction as real seems to depend upon the person's view of cyber. If a person views cyber as just another reality, then their interactions will indeed be very real to them. If a person views cyber as nothing but a fantasy play land, then their interactions will not be real to them at all. A cyber relationship, in my experience, can indeed be very real. I base this on personal experience as well as knowledge of the human mind. The mind is the most influential part of a person. As well, it is the largest sexual organ any single human being can have. Cyber interactions deal directly with the mind. There are no visual inputs that can distract from the information being received by the mind. They require a greater ability to put feelings and thoughts into words. Because of this, one can create a mental and emotional bond much faster online. Further, cyber offers a sense of anonymity that allows people to open up faster and deeper than they would in a face to face conversation. This enhances the feeling of emotional closeness to the person you are interacting with and strengthens the mental bond. This bond, is very real to the one who feels it. The emotional responses of arguments, disagreements and such are the same for online relationships as those in reality. In some cases, the response can be more intense due to the fact that cyber interactions deal directly with the mind and heart. Words are one of the most powerful influences in a person's life. Cyber is a world created through words. Because of the power of words, cyber can be very much real. For example, if someone tells you "You look nice today" it makes you feel good. If someone says that online, it makes you feel good too. Cyber, however, contains quite a bit of fantasy. It is easy to get lost in the fantasy part of it. As well, it is dangerous to believe that everything that happens during kinky cyber sex or scenes, are an exact replica of what would happen in real life. Just because you kneel in cyber, does not mean you can do it in reality. Or just because you can type that you flogged someone, doesn't mean you have the experience or knowledge to actually do so in real life. It is important to keep the fantasy part of cyber interactions seperated from the reality part. There are many ways you can do that over the internet, some might be safer than others, but all in all you need to keep it safe , sane and consensual. As always. Source

BDSM cyber play

Real Life play is wonderful. It's exhilarating, it's fun and it can be intensely erotic. And some people are lucky enough to be able to play whenever they want. Usually though, there are limitations - time, distance, other obligations - which mean we can't just whip up a scene whenever we feel like it. It's a big, wide world out there, and sometimes its hundreds - or even thousands - of miles that separate us from our play partner. However, RL isn't the only way to explore and experience BDSM.

It is often said, that our most developed sexual organ is our brain - and that's were cyber-BDSM comes in. Of course, everyone's heard of cybersex. There are a plethora of online chat rooms where you can go to have one-night cyber-stands, and talk to people you don't know in third person all pretending you're getting down to hot and kinky sex - this article isn't about them. Rather, I want to look at how technology can work in and enhance a BDSM relationship.

One of the most difficult things about cyber play is that the only toy you have is your imagination. It's also one of the most exciting. This can be that grey area where fantasy and reality meet, where you can try out new things safe in the knowledge that the worst thing that will happen is the connection dropping. It can give you the confidence to explore that thing you've been thinking about for a while, but are too embarrassed / nervous / unsure whether you'll like it to bring it up face to face.

For the idle amongst you, cyber has the advantage of taking very little physical effort. No squeezing oneself into a 22" corset, or ending up with a pulled muscle from too much flogging.

You don't have to spend two hours getting ready to indulge in an online scene, and there's no worry of getting pulled over by the police whilst you’re driving to the venue dressed in a rubber cat suit with a bag full of floggers. Cyber is fun, safe and sexy. And you can enjoy it from the comfort of your computer chair.

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Open your mind .. empty your thoughts and say this outloud : My kink drawer will be open, I will enjoy my spankings and look forward to obeying every command Miss Monica gives me, shamelessly!

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If you would like to experience the honour of serving beneath Me then you may apply to serve Me . However, you should be aware that I accept only the very highest standards of devotion and obedience and should you fail to please Me in any way, you will of course expect to receive suitable punishment (within pre-set limits).

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I am your deepest desire, your secret fantasy, and of course your wildest dreams come true. I am your mistress, and I will take pleasure in you giving me everything I want. Of course with your money, and your gifts. You will confess to me, how much you need my discipline and guidance. Admit how much I understand your desires, because of course I do. I know you want to please me, and agree to embrace my every wish. You know it’s your destiny, don’t you? You can’t resist Me. Only very special slaves get my attention, and of course you do want to be special to me, don’t you. I believe the greatest gift a woman can possess is beauty. You will worship my beauty and give me everything I desire.
You will serve me with each and every breath that you take. You will worship me and me alone. I will become the only reason for your being. Your true reason for being. No longer will you be alone or on your own, you will live for me, I will become your true and one and only obsession.

Money and power go hand in hand. One cannot exist without the other. Money can be an incredibly powerful sexual aphrodisiac. Giving, and taking, money can become an intense sexual fetish. Almost all money slaves experience an incomparable sexual gratification, and a vast emotional satisfaction, from the act of giving.

Financial domination gives a fulfilment seldom found in other fetishes – Fulfilment to a submissive' need to live for a dea or deus greater than themselves, to give all their best of themselves to that goddess. I am the one you have been searching for, all this time.
You are here because you have an insatiable urge, in some ways a sexual drive, to fulfil a need. The reason, and I am your reason you are here is beyond your control, you cannot resist me. My beauty commands your attention. My presence demands your obedience. You are merely a marionette – I pull your strings and you dance as I please on the stage of my Life.
Face it. Admit it. Even as you take in my words, your anticipation rises, your excitement builds, your need to please this goddess rises to an almost unbearable level.

You want to be mine; you need to give to me. To serve this goddess with your very being is your destiny. Feel your heartbeat rise, notice your breath become quicker, watch your desire build to an obsessive need, revel in the excitement. Then, when you can stand the rising tension no longer, beg to be allowed to pay me homage with a tribute or gift.

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I am mistress Sandra. Enticing, beautiful, powerful and strict. The gorgeous curves that lead down from my round hips, to long sinewy legs and my pretty arched feet could be a version of heaven.The `WHERE YOU BELONG TO` heaven...

Absolute amateurs are encouraged to come forward and delve into their dark desires, I will be more than happy to take you by the hand (or leash) and guide you through the dark passages of your own mind.

Well trained, or experienced slaves are always welcomed as are those with strange and unusual Fetishes.

I relish in pushing the limits and boundaries of you loyal and experienced playthings, while perhaps introducing a few seductive games of my own.


Mutual respect is vital, just as I anticipate the utmost respect from my subjects, Miss will always respect your limits and accept reasonable requests - providing you ask politely of course!

Everyone has different limits and boundaries, so mutual respect in an integral rule in my gameplay.

Being a dominant, yet sensuous nature, I take delight in seducing and teasing you to the point when you lose control, when the surprising combination between demanding and caring catches you off guard. It's when you realize how weak you’ve become, that limits start to melt, being helpless is a sweet treat and, in the end, there is nothing you wouldn’t do for MY PLEASURE!

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She is the hardest,mos severe Mistress you will ever have the priviledge of serving. Submitting to a femdom webcam session with this powerful woman is not for wannabes. 

She is a natural dominant and commands complete and total respect and obedience at all times. What ever she commands in a femdom webcam session,she expects to have done. If she wants another elastic band on your pathetic cock,you better do it. if she tells you to put more tobasco sauce on your nipples,put more on. And if she screams “dance” at you when your wearing your little pink frilly panties,well you better dance good.

This is one of the strictest Mistresses online and if your only playing at being a sub and your really only wanting to test how far you can push her then you should just move on. 

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What makes a healthy submissive - online or real life

1. The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years.

2. The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others.

3. The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship.

4. The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place.

5. The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others.

6. The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances.

7. The healthy submissive is playful.

8. The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty.

9. The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments.

10. The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent "wrongness" about those needs.

11. The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships.

12. The healthy submissive, in accepting herself "as is" is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what her truth should be.

13. The healthy submissive has a reasonable self concept, aware of her difficulties as well as her strengths.

14. The healthy submissive hunger is to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service.

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Emotional and Financial Dependency

Emotional Degradation and Emotional Subjection

Emotional degradation is a form of emotional SM that goes beyond embarrassment or humiliation into the realm of stripping the bottom of self-esteem or inner resources. For many people being embarrassed, humiliated, or even degraded can be very hot. Where to draw the line, and how to be sure that the loss of self-esteem stays under control and does not pervade aspects of life where it is unwanted can be very difficult to assess.

The heavier and riskier forms of this kind of play bring up questions about potentially damaging someone's self-respect both in and out of scene. While many males find it very hot to be told their cocks are small and unsatisfying in scene, and many females and males alike find it very hot to be told they are dirty, disgusting, or too ugly to desire, it would potentially be damaging to reinforce someone's negative self-image. To tell someone that he is stupid, useless, or undesirable may be hot for the person at the time, but it carries a lot of risk if it is repeated daily. It is the responsibility of the partners to consider the long-term self-esteem issues involved and to be sure that this kind of play does not lead into nonconsensual areas that sneak up on the partners over time.

More than most kinds of risky play, emotional degradation seems to risk a relationship's crossing the line into abuse. If the submissive or bottom is constantly told he or she is useless or subject to the top/dom's every whim, told to stay home doing the only lowly tasks he or she is good for, devoid of an outside job, school, or independent friends, and otherwise made dependent financially and emotionally on the top/dom for any kind of support or approval, how do the partners know if consent is still being given of free will? Even though such a model of abject subjection and extreme dependency on one's dom or top is appealing to many people, top and bottom alike, there is a substantial long-run risk of entrapment involved. Such relationships can start off with freely given and informed consent, but risk long-run emotional damage as well as the loss of opportunities in life.

Not all such relationships go down such a sad road! But to not think about the risks in advance and periodically reevaluate the situation is foolish.

Blackmail and Financial Subjection


Some people fantasize about being blackmailed. After all, blackmail is a form of control. While this is an extreme form of play that is rarely talked about in public, it does occur consensually. In one variant, the bottom consensually gives the top control over financial resources like bank accounts. If the bottom does not do the top's bidding or maintain whatever agreement was made, the top takes away the resources or reduces the bottom's allotment. In another variant, the top investigates the bottom's life and threatens to reveal unacceptable details to family or an employer unless payment or acquiescent behavior are forthcoming. Obviously, smaller amounts of resources afford less risk. But most of the time I have heard of this kind of play, it involves astonishingly large sums, even a person's entire savings.

Clearly this sort of play risks the top's not returning the resources or using them inappropriately. Disputes, particularly between unmarried lovers, can be hard to resolve. Under ordinary social mores, many would doubt that anyone can possibly give fully informed consent to something so extreme. But it is a fact that people do play this way. For some it is successful play.

Successful forms of this play sometimes entail specific goals for the bottom, such as studying harder at school, losing weight, or more frivolous goals such as the bottom's learning to kneel each night before bed. The palpable reality of actually losing money can be highly motivating as well as erotic. Complete financial dependency or vulnerability can also be a form of erotic control.

There are instances of people losing a lot of money this way. You are very foolish if you think it can't possibly happen to you because your dom or top would never do that to you or because you will never have a dispute with your partner. The person you have negotiated with may be completely serious when it comes to the financial threats involved in whatever contractual arrangements you agree to. In fact, for many, the appeal of this kind of play is inherently intertwined with the top's "badness," seriousness, or unpredictability. On the other hand, there are people in long-term relationships whose subjection or jeopardy does consensually and erotically involve the handing over of such financial reins. After all, many traditional marriages throughout the world involve similar arrangements, with the female having no independent resources. Such arrangements, while they may not appeal to feminists, do not innately preclude happiness or love in life.

If you are considering such an extreme form of play, it makes sense to consider getting a good lawyer to go over any contract you sign. You should also consider the long-term situation you may be putting yourself or your dependents in if you cannot reclaim resources in the event of a broken relationship or contract. I don't know of any court cases to date of anyone suing to reclaim resources surrendered to a dom in such circumstances, but I won't be surprised to hear it come up eventually.Tops and doms can get used as well as bottom and subs, if the negotiations are not clear and mutually acceptable. For the top to provide financial support for the bottom with nothing commensurate granted in return is also unlikely to be tenable in a long-term relationship.

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According to Wikipedia ,Female dominance (or femdom) is those BDSM relationships and BDSM scenes in which the dominant partner is female, being the opposite of the more common, widespread and traditional role of female submission. 
Often a dominant woman, she may prefer to be called a Domme, Femdomme, Domina, or Dominatrix, depending on context or personal preference.
A female dominant in a master/slave relationship is often termed a Mistress, not to be confused with the colloquial usage of mistress as a kept sexual partner without a similarly formalized power relationship.
Just to be crystal clear to everyone who is reading this blog.
This is my kinky playground where you may find many reading and references to female dominance and much more.

I have started on the web, trying to find the right person who could be compatible with my nasty personality. I have been searching very long hours, which has consumed most of my nights without any result.

I found people who thought they were into BDSM but have no idea what is the real meaning of dominance and submission but also kinky people with lots of fetishes but too far to meet with them. Until one day, the perfect person appears in my life. I will name him Slub. Because he was neither a submissive nor a slave, he was between. Too bored to be a sub to scared to become slave.
I am having very interesting, sexy, kinky moments with my Slub but It’s not enough for me . Lately, I have been reading a lot of books about sex, kink, BDSM, especially when I rest, after having long sessions with Slub, indulging in my long, hot baths. Gloria Brame, E.L. James books are amazing. Her well written erotic story has had me yearning to explore further, plunge deeper and explore vaster into my BDSM, role play experience.

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Be sure that there are lots of opportunities to find kinky romance in this new world of online fetish dating sites. In this search for your perfect match, you are not only able to key in the height, weight, age, race, religious preference and locale of a potential partner, but now you can also key in any specific kink that you may desire. New online fetish dating sites are popping up on a daily basis.

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I often get questions with regard to fetishes because more and more people are interested in finding a cure fort this , others just seeking to indulge in their fetish and some are interested in finding a soul mate to share in their fetish. A fetish is classified as a fixation on an object or specific situation that leads to sexual arousal. This also can encompass the obsession one feels towards physical body parts in a sexual sense. 

Human sexuality is very complicated, coupled with society's views on sexuality, it can make a person feel shame or hide their sexual preference, fetish and ideas of what turns them on. Many times people will marry or be in long term relationships but not be satisfied with their sex life or partner. 
They may hide their passion for high heels and stockings, their obsession with feet and toes, large breasts or even the desire to be cuckold. Many of these people will be unfulfilled sexually and seek it out elsewhere. Sharing and enjoying a fetish with a partner can have a very positive effect on the romance and sex play in a relationship. 

Online fetish / kinky dating gives a person the ability to shop for a partner tailor made to meet their specific needs, wants, desires and fetishes. In this day and age of internet online dating, it doesn't matter if you are sporting spiked heels and fishnets, in your diaper and collar or even wrapped in rubber needing proper punishment. 

There is a site for you, just look it up, log in and then you can be enjoying long walks on the beach with your new partner, hand in hand or hand holding leash.

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People that are involved in the BDSM lifestyle have the same need to reach out and talk to others as anyone else does. Finding the right one is sometimes difficult with all of the different dating, forums and chat services. Finding the right chat room is important but equally important is how to fit in to the chat room. It is the best way to find the right room and get the most out of the connections that you make.

Like any other product, chat rooms should be reviewed. Some sites promise a wide range of products and huge user bases. The problem is many of the users are simply robot responders. They are designed to make the chat rooms seem more populated than they are. Review chat rooms and forums to make sure that they fit the lifestyle that is being sought. Swingers do not always have much in common with those of a hard core fetish lifestyle.

Reading through forums will give people a good idea of what to expect of the members and any connected chat rooms. Forums can provide insight to the types of BDSM that a chat room may focus on. It is hard to enjoy a chat room when you have no common ground with the people you are talking to. It is important to remember that even within the BDSM community there are virtually limitless number of sub-cultures. Followers of Gorean thought are not always compatible with people who are not into that lifestyle.

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The first rule of any civil chat room is to treat each other with respect. Within the BDSM community, this is especially true. It is important to remember that within the lifestyle there are Doms, subs, swingers and more. Some may be simply curious, others may follow the lifestyle 24/7. It is essential to respect each other's boundaries. Within the BDSM community, people will find a variety of lifestyles. It is important that the lifestyles are personal choices and no one likes it when they feel that their personal life is being attacked.

Discreet interaction is also essential. Let's face it, people who are not within the BDSM culture are often judgmental of those within the lifestyle. There are risks associated with being outed. Even if you know someone outside of the scene, they may not wish for people outside the scene to know what they do behind closed doors. Even as a joke, there should never be overt or covert threats to bring public attention to another member. This can destroy the trust between members and is often viewed as nothing more than blackmail.

Finding a place to discuss and share ideas is important. Chat rooms provide a way of experimenting with different ideas and expose yourself to new ideas. Having a place that users feel safe allows people to fully express themselves and can bring out a whole new level of experience. The global reach of chat rooms can provide thousands of different fetishes, kinks and other lifestyles together.

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What is all this BDSM about? Is it safe? Are you likely to get anything out of it? Is there any way to try it out and minimize the risks even further?

If you don't wish to get dressed up and venture into one of the BDSM clubs that may be found in your city then you may find that 'testing the waters of BDSM' through some form of on-line communication may suit you. Many clubs prefer couples to attend and turn away singles. Or you may not have an easy way to get out and about. If you have a computer and are connected to the Internet then there are other options that you may try before taking the bigger plunge into the real world of BDSM.

Fantasy play on-line is fun - but it still has to be within sensible guidelines. If you don't learn to practice safe, sane and consensual BDSM on-line correctly then you will never be able to make the transition to real-life. Even if this is not your intention, you will still gain greater respect from the real-life Dominants on-line if you practice correctly on-line. And you never know if you may suddenly decide you do want to make the transition. If you don't do it right on-line you will be a danger to others and yourself.

What about real-life play directed on-line? Yes - this works. Your greatest challenge is to follow the instructions correctly. There is one sure-fire way to know about real life play directed through on-line commands. Try things yourself. Experience it so you know what it feels like. Discuss with your dominant and compare what they know with what you say. Real-life directions can be especially effective through email as you'll have more time to carry out the tasks, think about what is happening and provide a coherent reply. Remember the rules of safe, sane and consensual and make sure you have your safe-word.

You may scene wonderfully with a Dominat on-line but may find that their skils and attitude less than perfect in real-life. They may not be prepared to do all the things in real-life that they do on-line. Once again - TALK. Then talk some more. And after that TALK!! In BDSM, communication is paramount. This is why starting on-line can be very effective. It forces you to communicate in the first place.

Are there risks? Well everything in life carries risks. However, if your make your initial meetings either in groups of other on-line people or in public places, you can get a chance to gauge the reality of the other person. I would suggest that this is especially important for submissive because they are the ones more likely to be open to possible abuse in a BDSM relationship. Whatever you do, don't hand out your personal information on-line until you get to know the person or people in real-life first. This may of course only take one or two public meetings before you feel comfortable.

On-line BDSM is possible, practical and can be perfect. It can be a great place to learn and gain experience and to understand who you are in a BDSM context. In addition, there are real-life BDSM people on-line that can give you information and advice and who may even provide contacts in your area that may allow you to look more closely at real life BDSM.

And for those people that may have some reason that stops them participating in real-life BDSM (i.e. situation, distance, etc.) then it is an excellent alternative.
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