The most profound aspect of 24/7/365 is giving up one's life in pursuit of another. As scary as this may be to you, it's not unheard of. Everyone, I believe at one point or another, unrelated to BDSM, thinks about a different life, perhaps moving from a city to the country, going back to school as an adult, or leaving a marriage. I know that I have. And, there are a number of people who undertake such a change. For some people the psychological aspect of the change can be great, but small when viewed by others. For example, a change in lifestyle to loose or gain weight can be daunting to the person undertaking it as there may be fears that need to be dealt with first.
Arguably, making the decision to be a 24/7/365 slave is not a light one and has many implications. It's not always as simple as selling a house, and can be a combination of problems and first up is figuring out how to deal with each of them. It's as though you are in debt. The first thing you need to do is figure out where all the money is going. Then you need to figure out what you can do away with and what you cannot. Just like debt, it's probably easiest to look at the simple problems and to keep in mind that no problem is insurmountable - that being a slave (or anything for that matter) is an act of sheer will and entirely your decision.
Second is outlining the major points you would want in an agreement with a Master. This is important. Whether you are dealing with debt, preparing for a marriage, undertaking a mortgage, or becoming a slave, you need to be true to what you believe you can realistically accept at this point in your life. For example, perhaps you need to visit your parents every couple of months - this should be an item on your list. These items are necessarily deal breakers. If you feel you cannot live without certain things, you should be upfront about such things. You also need to be aware of your limits. Ideally, this list will form (together with the Master's points) the basis for an agreement. Although not entirely legally binding (perhaps separate agreements such as a power of attorney, will, living will, etc. can be), it does establish a level of comfort between both parties.
Third, you need to obviously find a Master. This is just as difficult as finding a serious 24/7/365 slave. You need to find a Master who is experienced, sane, knowledgeable, and is into similar BDSM activities. Outside of BDSM, there needs to be compatibility as well. Why you ask? Well, you need to be able to like and respect the Master you will be serving.
In any event, I believe that choosing to be a 24/7/365 slave is just as valid as any other and is not impractical or impossible. It is up to you to decide what you want to do with your life and to make it happen.
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